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Britney Spears' younger sister Jamie Lynn Spears announced that she’s pregnant. This is a girl who’s 16, rich and famous, and is now being held up as "responsible" for taking ownership and deciding to keep her baby.
Why isn’t anyone talking about why she’s pregnant in the first place? “It was a shock for both of us, so unexpected,” Jamie Lynn told Ok! magazine. “I was in complete and total shock and so was [my boyfriend].” She can’t possibly lack knowledge or access to birth control, so why was her pregnancy a shock? If you have sex without protection, you might get pregnant. NOT SHOCKING, right? Granted, she could have had a condom break or something, but that's why Plan B is available over-the-counter.
My beef isn’t with what she—or other girls in her position—decided to do with her pregnancy. But instead of using her situation (and spotlight) to mention the preventability of teen pregnancy, Jamie Lynn holds up abstinence as a reasonable solution for other girls. “I definitely don’t think it’s [premarital sex] something you should do; it’s better to wait,” she said. “But I can’t be judgmental because it’s a position I put myself in.” Jamie Lynn casts premarital sex as the problem when unprotected sex is clearly the issue at hand—thus passing up a perfect opportunity to slip the solution into the dialogue.
A girl who’s a role model for millions of other young girls shouldn’t be heralded for failing to use contraception. Period.
And MSNBC definitely shouldn’t be running a poll on whether Jamie Lynn will be a better mother than Britney.

I also am tickled to see that Britney and Jamie's mom's scheduled book--on "Christian parenting"--has been indefinitely postponed. Hmm, witholding information about contraception and safe sex--sounds pretty right-wing Christian to me. She should go ahead and write that book!
I totally agree with you Annika, she should use her celebrity (especially as a Nickolodean teen queen) to actually be the role model she claims she is.
The best part of this whole story is that the press is bringing up the parenting skills of her mom (who apparently was coming out with a book on parenting!) I think its time that we stop "abstinence only" education in our schools and start teaching SAFE sex, contraceptions, morning after pills... and Healthy relationships!