BREAKING: Gender-neutral Housing Comes to Princeton!
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I've never legit gotten to break a story before, but I just found out that some news I've known for 24 hours is now public: Princeton will have a gender-neutral housing option starting in this spring's housing lottery for the 2010-11 school year.

The proposal, authored by student members of the Undergraduate Life Committee, with the help of yours truly, was approved by the ULC two weeks ago and then got a necessary second endorsement from the Council of Masters (of the six residential colleges) yesterday. It's a pilot program which designates Spelman Hall, an apartment-style housing option for upperclass students (in which, significantly, every student gets their own bedroom), as gender-neutral. Instead of having to draw in groups of four students of the same gender, there will be no gender requirement on groups entering the Spelman draw. The ULC, the USG, the Housing office, and anyone else with a stake in the issue will be watching pretty closely to see how this plays out next year. Depending on interest, they may choose to expand gender-neutral housing to other upperclass dorms, or to keep it restricted to Spelman.

This is a big step forward for Princeton, which, until the ULC undertook this proposal, was the only university among the Ivy League and a set of other R1 universities that had never actively considered a gender-neutral housing proposal. While this pilot program may go on to affect relatively few people next year—particularly since it's only an option for students eligible for the Spelman draw anyway—it's a major change in university policy that brings Princeton quite dramatically and unequivocally into the 21st century. I can't help gloating that it puts us ahead of Yale (which withdrew its pilot program last year to considerable undergraduate ire), and the fact that it happened with relatively little fanfare speaks very, very well for this university and its administration.

I'm extraordinarily proud that I can say I had a part in making this happen, however small. We all have to do what we can to make our communities places we can be proud of, and create circumstances that will be better for the next generation. Now we have to turn our attention to making sure the pilot program goes well next year, but I can't resist taking at least a few days to bask in the warmth of having made real, discernible change to the policy of this place.

Even Princeton, folks. Even Princeton.


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Gender neutral housing is not OK.
By Princetonalum08 Oct 14th 2009 at 3:05 pm EDT (Updated Oct 14th 2009 at 3:05 pm EDT)
This is rather depressing. I'm glad I left Princeton when I did-- and here's hoping that the administration doesn't give in to these demands.
Re: Gender neutral housing is not OK.
By Princeton '13 Oct 14th 2009 at 4:08 pm EDT (Updated Oct 14th 2009 at 4:08 pm EDT)
I totally agree 100%. Too bad I'll have four more years of this. Who knows? Sex on a Saturday night may become a University requirement soon--if you know what I mean.
Re: Gender neutral housing is not OK.
By Oberlinstudent Oct 14th 2009 at 8:32 pm EDT (Updated Oct 14th 2009 at 8:32 pm EDT)
Oberlin has had gender-neutral housing available for a long time, and strangely enough we've somehow managed to avoid any cases of cooties. I really hope you're just being tongue-in-cheek or something, because opposition to gender neutrality is an incredibly infantile and retrogressive position to take in the 21st century. If you really think men and women can't live together without keeping their hands off each other, you should go live in Saudi Arabia or something.
  
@Princetonalum08 and @Princeton '13
By Emily Rutherford Oct 14th 2009 at 4:50 pm EDT (Updated Oct 14th 2009 at 4:50 pm EDT)
Princetonalum08,

This announcement means that the university administration--in the form of the Undergraduate Life Council, the Council of Masters, and the Housing Office--has endorsed the ULC proposal. This is much more than a "demand"--it *will* happen for the 2010 draw.

'13,

Let me quote from the argument I made in a memo to the Council of Masters last week:

"GNH is not intended as a way for significant others to live together, nor is it likely to become such. As young adults, upperclass students are not only capable of living with opposite-gender roommates, they are capable of separating their sexual from their nonsexual relationships. It is worth looking at the case of same-sex couples, who could live together under the current housing policy--and yet that is something entirely unheard of among undergraduates. It seems no more likely that mixed-gender draw groups (who, under our proposed policy, would have separate, gender-segregated sleeping spaces) would live together for sexual or romantic purposes than same-gender groups currently do."
  
Slight correction
By biff3000 Oct 14th 2009 at 6:45 pm EDT (Updated Oct 14th 2009 at 6:45 pm EDT)
You said 21st Century. You meant 20th Century.
  
@'08,@13, and Emily, from '11
By IJ Engels Oct 14th 2009 at 7:01 pm EDT (Updated Oct 14th 2009 at 7:01 pm EDT)
@'08: I fail to see how it's depressing unless your express desire is to see more students forced into uncomfortable situations. I felt forced to remain in the closet my entire freshman year because I wanted to remain on good terms with my roommate, whose friends had less-than-progressive views about gay men. How does that make Princeton any less depressing? All that is happening is that another option for students who don't fit the typical box is being offered, in keeping with Princeton's commitment to supporting her own regardless of race, gender, orientation, religion, etc. This wouldn't affect you even if you were still at Princeton. So I am forced to ask: Why do you care, unless it's simply to rail against people of a certain stripe that you don't like?

@'13 re: SOSN: What a cheap, unfunny observation, and one that falls to pieces at the slightest scrutiny. Nobody is going to be forced to live with someone of the opposite gender, much less be forced to have sex with anyone else. Perhaps you haven't had time to catch on yet, but this is beneath you. Especially as a Princeton student. Were I you I would worry less about making it through four years at Princeton when students could choose to room with who they feel comfortable, and focus more on how exactly you plan to hack it at a place where insightful argument is expected rather than an ill-advised wisecrack.

@both: Your sudden, knee-jerk, and vitriolic reactions to something that does not directly affect you worry me far more than the possible negative implications of any University policy--and that's assuming there are even significant negative implications in the first place.

@Emily: Bravo. Words fail.

-IJ '11
  
HMMMM.
By Anonymous Oct 15th 2009 at 8:41 am EDT (Updated Oct 15th 2009 at 8:41 am EDT)
Several thoughts occur to me:

1. This option reflects, in part, the fact that families are much smaller today than in the recent past. If you're grown up with opposite-sex siblings, the appeal of rooming with one would be decidedly less.

2. Even in a large family, siblings generally share actual sleeping rooms on a same-sex basis. This hyper-closeness is certainly something new.

3. But, not to worry. Having seen (and lived in) my share of boys' dorms, I can assure you that there are not many women who would tolerate the personal habits of many young men. So not many students are likely to choose this plan.

4. This is not about open-mindedness. It's about practical realities, and maybe to a lesser extent the desire of student groups to be cutting-edge and administrators to do whatever the students want to avoid conflict.
  
Three Cheers for Old Nassau
By Phil Oct 15th 2009 at 11:19 am EDT (Updated Oct 15th 2009 at 11:19 am EDT)
Hurrah, Hurrah Hurrah

Many an evening spent drinking beer while forestalling study in various Spelman suites over the years would certainly have been brightened by a friendly female face (and someone to insist on a cleaner bathroom)
  
Not on the SATs?
By Kokuanani Oct 15th 2009 at 12:26 pm EDT (Updated Oct 15th 2009 at 12:26 pm EDT)
***(in which, significantly, every student gets their own bedroom),***

Should be "his or her own bedroom."
  
Gender Neutral Housing not just about male/female
By Jonathan Oct 15th 2009 at 2:16 pm EDT (Updated Oct 15th 2009 at 2:16 pm EDT)
As a University of Wisconsin-Madison student who is fighting the same type of discrimination the article alludes to, namely transphobia and discrimination based on gender, I would really hope that we aren't going to restrict ourselves to just 'he' and 'she'. I guess to me it seems obvious that gender neutral housing is just that--neutral--and not some box we are trying to force people into. If you don't want it--don't live in it.

Props to Princeton. University of Wisconsin-Madison is right behind you and will be in contact with you soon. =)

Best,
Jonathan
  
This is news?
By Casey Oct 15th 2009 at 3:09 pm EDT (Updated Oct 15th 2009 at 3:09 pm EDT)
This just shows how far the Ivies are behind everyone else. Several other universities--including Rice, my alma mater--have been doing this for years. For ALL residential dorms, not just a pilot program. I think we need to stop feeding the Ivy-ego. They have never been on the forefront of social innovation when it comes to college campuses.

Not to diminish your accomplishments--it's a good thing Princeton is finally catching up.
Re: This is news?
By Jonathan Oct 15th 2009 at 9:19 pm EDT (Updated Oct 15th 2009 at 9:19 pm EDT)
I visited Rice University's website and didn't see anything about coed housing, nor anything that indicated anything about assignments based on gender either. But, to clarify, gender-neutral housing in this context is referring to residents having the opportunity to live in the same room, apartment, or what have you... not just having male identified and female identified residents living on the same floor, but in separate rooms. If Rice University is indeed employing this very holistic approach where all of the residential colleges on its campus are completely gender-neutral and randomly assigned, independent of gender, then please respond and indicate so. Because that information/example in such a broad aspect would be vital to other colleges and universities as they attempt to establish their own gender neutral housing.

Best,
Jonathan
Re: This is news?
By Jonathan Oct 15th 2009 at 9:20 pm EDT (Updated Oct 15th 2009 at 9:20 pm EDT)
I visited Rice University's website and didn't see anything about coed housing, nor anything that indicated anything about assignments based on gender either. But, to clarify, gender-neutral housing in this context is referring to residents having the opportunity to live in the same room, apartment, or what have you... not just having male identified and female identified residents living on the same floor, but in separate rooms. If Rice University is indeed employing this very holistic approach where all of the residential colleges on its campus are completely gender-neutral and randomly assigned, independent of gender, then please respond and indicate so. Because that information/example in such a broad aspect would be vital to other colleges and universities as they attempt to establish their own gender neutral housing.

Best,
Jonathan
  
Wow
By Tanya P Oct 17th 2009 at 4:30 pm EDT (Updated Oct 17th 2009 at 4:30 pm EDT)
I'm surprised at how many sucky comments your post generated...
Re: Wow
By J Oct 17th 2009 at 5:34 pm EDT (Updated Oct 17th 2009 at 5:34 pm EDT)
And you obviously did so much better at contributing to the discussion. If all you can do is criticize and not add anything of substance to the conversation, then don't comment at all.
Re: Wow
By Emily Rutherford Oct 20th 2009 at 6:25 pm EDT (Updated Oct 20th 2009 at 6:25 pm EDT)
I'm surprised by how many comments period my post generated!
  
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